Thursday, December 10, 2015

Divorce

I really enjoyed talking about this in class because it helped shed new light on the topic. My husbands parents got divorced not too long ago and I was having some issues with it because my husband was having issues with it, It was really hard to see him get pulled into things and I would get really frustrated at his parents. Then things became more clear. I realized how hard this was on everyone and that his parents weren't pulling him into the situation because he was already in it before this all happened. I had to realize that I will never be able to understand 100% how everything is because it is not MY family. I didn't grow up with them and I didn't feel the pain they went through. Just as my husband will never 100% know what my family has gone through, but I realized the best thing I could do is just be there. Be there for him and be there for him to have someone to talk to and confide in.